The Sense of Being Stared At


Have  you ever pulled up to a stoplight and found your head slowly turning as you discover someone staring at you?


Have you ever been staring at someone without their knowledge and then found them spontaneously turn to look directly in your eyes?


Have you ever had someone attracted to you view you up and down, and you felt uncomfortable?


These experiences are not as uncommon as you may imagine. Biologist and author Dr. Rupert Sheldrake has done extensive research on this phenomenon and found that 70-97% of people have had this experience. He also found that women (88%) experience it significantly more than men (71%).


What happens inside of us when we turn around and suddenly find someone staring at us? 

No one can describe exactly how this phenomenon occurs, but any energy healer or practitioner understands it well because they consciously use it to perform their work. Healers know that when they direct their conscious awareness into someone else's body, there will be a change in that person's biofield. By focusing their mind's intention toward healing, they can often invite the body of their client to follow their lead. Research studies have shown that we don't even have to be close to someone to experience this phenomenon. Distance intention studies have demonstrated that healers can influence all sorts of items, including cells, plants, water, and even people, at a distance.


Why is this important to know? Because our minds are always "landing" in situations in our lives and similarly influencing them. If we think our minds are impotent, we don't realize each thought either significantly helps or hurts conditions. We do not realize how we make our lives much worse by allowing our minds to run amok! An undisciplined mind is like a wrecking ball in a china shop. It causes all sorts of situations to shatter unnecessarily. The clean-up from such destruction can take years!


In the Consciousness Athlete curriculum, we learn to no longer think of the mind as impotent, but as the formidable force it is. We learn to discipline our minds by observing their powerful impact on our bodies. After watching how our minds significantly impact us, we realize we must use them well! We can no longer hide or pretend that our minds do not have power. We also learn to no longer to surrender this control to anyone else but ourselves. We anchor our minds in our bodies so that we no longer suffer the messy consequences of a meandering mind.


It all starts with training our mind-body connection as our infinitely wise biofeedback instrument. When we learn how to use the power of the mind to feel more at home in our bodies, simultaneously we feel more at home in our lives. 

When we start to play at this level, we realize that it is much more fun and practical to direct our mind's impact into constructive directions skillfully, so we never feel as disempowered again. We may struggle when we face a new challenge, but as we progress, we learn to find the mental poise that impacts the situation quickly, and life becomes far more enjoyable!


All of the work of NUMINOUS is to help people harness this one skill. If you would like to know more about how the sense of being stared relates to your life, consider reading my book and doing the accompanying meditation exercises. 


What different results will you obtain when you learn how to stare into your own life differently? 


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